The Gates of Silent Memory
You must remember to remain silent. It's not about avoiding conflict, it's about understanding that with experience comes the realization that is not conflict or the keeping of the thoughts to oneself that is the problem, but rather it’s the when and how to express those thoughts, and when not to express them at all.
Don’t say anything you can’t stand behind it fully.
“He who does not understand your silence will probably not understand your words.”